Job interview etiquette comes down to a few rules: arrive on time but not too early, greet everyone politely, put your phone away, let the interviewer finish before you speak, ask before you take notes if you're unsure, and thank people at the end and in writing within a day. None of it is complicated. It matters because lapses are easy to notice and easy to remember, and they can distract from otherwise strong answers.
This guide walks through an interview in order, from arrival to follow-up, and covers in-person and video interviews. Meals have their own rules, which we cover in lunch interview etiquette.
Before you arrive
- Confirm the details the day before. Time and time zone, address or video link, the names of your interviewers, and a contact number in case something goes wrong.
- Plan to arrive 10 to 15 minutes early for an in-person interview. Wait nearby if you're earlier than that; arriving 30 or more minutes early can put pressure on whoever has to host you.
- Join a video call 2 to 5 minutes early, after testing your audio and camera.
- Dress one step above the team's everyday dress. If you're unsure, ask the recruiter what people usually wear.
- Bring what you need, and nothing that will clutter the table. Our checklist of what to bring to an interview covers it.
If you're going to be late despite your planning, tell them before the start time. Our guide on what to do if you're late for an interview has message templates.
Greetings, phones and small talk
Greetings
Be polite to everyone from the moment you arrive, including the receptionist, the security desk and the person who walks you to the room. It's simply good manners, and some hiring teams ask those people for their impressions. When you meet the interviewer, stand if you're seated, make eye contact, smile and use their name: "Hi Maria, thanks for making the time." Shake hands if they offer; if they don't, a nod and a greeting is enough.
On video, greet the interviewer as soon as the call connects, then wait for them to set the agenda.
Phones
Switch your phone off or to silent, with vibration off, and put it away before you enter the building. A phone on the table, even face down, suggests you're waiting for something more important. On video, close messaging apps and turn off notifications so nothing pops up or chimes.
Small talk
Expect a minute or two of small talk at the start. Keep it light and positive: the journey, the office, something you noticed about the company. Avoid complaints, politics and anything you wouldn't say to a new colleague. Let the interviewer decide when to move on.
How do you handle interrupting, note-taking and pauses?
Interrupting
Let the interviewer finish the question, even when you think you know where it's going. Questions often end with a twist ("…and what would you do differently?"). If the interviewer interrupts you, stop, listen and respond to what they asked. It usually means they have enough on that point or want to steer you elsewhere.
On video, audio delay makes talking over each other more likely. Pause for a second after the interviewer stops before you start your answer.
Note-taking
Taking brief notes is generally fine, especially in longer conversations. Bring a notepad and pen rather than typing on a laptop, which can look like you're doing something else. If you want to write down something specific, such as a name or a timeline, a quick "Mind if I note that down?" is polite. Keep your eyes up most of the time; write keywords, not paragraphs.
Pauses
Asking for a moment to think is good etiquette, not a weakness: "That's a good question. Let me take a second." A few seconds of silence is better than rambling. If you didn't follow a question, ask the interviewer to repeat or rephrase it.
How should you end an interview?
- Ask two or three prepared questions when invited. See questions to ask the interviewer.
- Watch the time. If the slot is ending, keep your questions short and offer to follow up by email.
- Restate your interest in one sentence: "I've enjoyed this, and the work on the onboarding redesign sounds like a strong fit for me."
- Ask about next steps and the timeline, not "How did I do?"
- Thank each person by name, with eye contact or a smile to the camera, and leave without lingering.
Following up
Send a short thank-you email to each interviewer within 24 hours. Mention one specific thing from your conversation and restate your interest. Our thank-you email templates work for one-on-one and panel interviews. If the timeline they gave you passes with no news, send one polite check-in; our guide to the follow-up email after an interview covers timing.
Etiquette do's and don'ts, in person and on video
| Moment | Do | Don't |
|---|---|---|
| Arrival (in person) | Arrive 10 to 15 minutes early and check in politely | Show up 40 minutes early, or late without warning |
| Arrival (video) | Join 2 to 5 minutes early with audio and camera tested | Join late because of a last-minute software update |
| Greeting | Stand, smile, use the person's name | Stay seated or skip the greeting with the receptionist |
| Phone | Off or silent with vibration off, out of sight | Leave it on the table or check it between questions |
| Listening | Let the interviewer finish; pause before answering on video | Finish their sentences or talk over them |
| Notes | Pen and paper, keywords only | Type on a laptop or read full answers |
| Background (video) | Quiet room, plain background, others in the home know you're busy | Take the call in a café or with a TV on |
| Ending | Ask questions, restate interest, ask about next steps | Ask "Did I get it?" or run past the end time |
| Follow-up | Thank-you email within 24 hours | Send daily check-ins |
For setup details on video calls, see our Zoom interview tips. Posture and eye contact are covered in our guide to interview body language, and the wider list of slip-ups is in common interview mistakes.
Practice it
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How early should you arrive for a job interview?
Plan to arrive 10 to 15 minutes early for an in-person interview, which leaves time to check in. For a video interview, join 2 to 5 minutes early after testing your audio and camera.
Should you shake hands in a job interview?
Shake hands if the interviewer offers. If they don't, a smile, eye contact and a greeting are enough. On video, a short wave or greeting when the call connects does the same job.
Is it rude to take notes during a job interview?
No. Brief notes on paper are generally fine and show you're paying attention. Keep them to keywords, keep your eyes up most of the time, and avoid typing on a laptop.
What should you do if you interrupt the interviewer by accident?
Stop, say "Sorry, go ahead," and let them finish. On video, accidental overlaps are common because of audio delay, so a quick apology and a one-second pause before your answers is all you need.
Should you send a thank-you note after every interview?
Yes. A short email to each interviewer within 24 hours is standard etiquette. It won't make up for a weak interview, but it reinforces your interest and gives you a chance to add a point you missed.
Is it OK to bring water or coffee to an interview?
A bottle of water is usually fine, especially for long interviews. Bringing coffee into the room can look casual; accept a drink if you're offered one instead.